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  Daniel Comp shares about a childhood memory triggered by being slammed while windsurfing with massively gusty winds. Self-awareness and brain plasticity combined can give us insights which we can re-frame (change childish beliefs) there-by unlocking our emotional triggers. Surround yourself with a group of men that can help you get from here to there. Personal transformation is one of the most exciting expeditions you'll ever journey. http://360MEN.net
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- "The memories: blown offshore as a boy in an inflatable boat, and pulled under by the Pacific undertow at three or four."
- "'You got yourself out there, you get yourself back' was, he says, the wrong lesson for a ten-year-old."
- "Brain plasticity lets an adult reinterpret old events and remove the trigger instead of suppressing it."
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# 360MEN: Big Crash Yields Onion Peeling

In April 2018, at a gusty campsite on Lake Corpus Christi, Daniel Comp tells how a windsurfing catapult left him tangled underwater and brought back clustered childhood drowning memories, then teaches how to peel that onion of emotional triggers with self-awareness, brain plasticity, and a few good men.

## Key lessons

- A strong emotional reaction is often an old, unreconciled experience wrapped in layers of later interpretation.
- Give the reaction time and trace it to its root; as an adult you can reinterpret what happened and release the trigger.
- A harsh lesson like "get yourself back" can do harm when it becomes a rule for all of life.
- Keep a safety plan and a few men who know where you are, so you don't face the crash alone or pass your wounds on.

## Transcript

_Cleaned transcript from the Asker barn, dated April 12, 2018. It is cleaned speech recognition and may differ slightly from the spoken words. Arnie did not watch the video._

**Daniel:**  
We've come to Lake Corpus Christi to take advantage of some thermal wind pushed from the Gulf across the state of Texas. An experience yesterday due to the volatility of the wind, high gusts, switching direction — this is one example of what went on last night, and this one's been here for quite a long time. That came down with about a 60 mile an hour gust.

Because I was out on the water earlier than this yesterday, I was looking forward to getting on the water and had an experience.

As humans, we are pattern-seeking. We like to — as we're seeing in the development of AI — form connections between experiences or between observations, and that way we try to make sense of the world. Unfortunately, we tend to have an experience when we're young that we can't reconcile, and so we can go throughout life adding on layers and layers of interpretation or beliefs. And as an adult, they can come back to haunt us in a sense.

So I want to talk to you about peeling onions — about taking the emotional layers one by one off when you have an experience like I had yesterday.

Consider what an onion looks like: it's got a core, then it has layers. As a child, if you have an experience that is unreconciled, we go through other experiences in life trying to interpret this, trying to understand this, and so we add layers and layers. It's called cognitive bias as a result of it, but we add layers of experiences that we interpret to be similar.

I'm suggesting that if you have an experience which ignites your emotions — yesterday me on the water, you have an experience of "Ah, I'm drowning," or "I'm gonna drown," or "I'm afraid" — you can go through, giving yourself some time, a bunch of recollections, a bunch of re-interpretations, and get right to the root of it. In some cases, you practice over time and this will come out immediately; you'll see this in your mind, that core experience. And when you deal with reinterpreting this as an adult, this whole thing can be settled; the whole emotional baggage of that can change entirely, which removes the trigger essentially.

My windsurf board is prepped for foiling. In other words, I have taken the foot straps off; that's how you get yourself secured board-to-man. You wear a harness and that hooks into a loop on the control bar on the boom, which is connected to the mast. When the wind blows, all that energy transfers down to the board and accelerates you. Well, since I don't use that, and I went out in pretty gusty conditions yesterday, I got launched, I got catapulted.

There was a gust that hit me as I was going about 22 to 25 miles an hour over about two to three-foot wind chop. I was skipping across the top of this and got overpowered and I get catapulted. Well, that's an immediate slam dunk. It's got a twisting motion to it, so the harness gets twisted around, tightened down like a knot on the hook, and you end up under the water, sail on top, water on the sailboard attached, keeping the whole thing secured. But you're holding your breath underwater, and there was a panic and a reminder, a memory, a recollection of a childhood event. And so that's what I want to talk about. It's easy to trigger emotions; our amygdala in here remembers these things.

What it does is it tends to pull up in the back of our head all the adrenaline, all the fight-or-flight, all the rage and anger, and all that, and it can mess with your whole day. So then even little tiny things — like I'm trying to record last night and the noseeums are biting my ankles, and the wind is gusting, and the campfire smoke is coming through, and as I stand up to adjust the camera, the wind grabs my chair and my wine cooler and scatters that across the land — all those things can really add up to be locked up inside.

Most guys just suppress it. I want to teach you how to work with that so you don't wound your next of kin and your children, your friends, your peers, etc.

Just a few minutes ago, wow, it's blowing somewhere up in 24-26 or so, and it's switching direction a lot here. This is a head of memory coming up here.

When I was a kid, I had a chance to row an inflatable boat. Sandusky Bay, I think it was, where my grandfather or uncle had a cabin in the Great Lakes. My parents, my dad specifically, said, "Here, go do something," kept me busy. I went out on some fairly rough water. The point being that I ended up going out in this, and then the wind picked up like that, but it was offshore. See, I've been watching the weather direction knowing it's coming onshore now; I've learned from that. But I remember terror. And the answer, as I was being blown offshore, was: "You got yourself out there, you get yourself back." And that was one of those lessons that "no one's coming to rescue your ass."

It wasn't the very best childhood lesson because it's not always applicable. And yeah, you cause your own pain sometimes, but, you know, a hard-ass tone isn't always the best way to help people. So I've had to learn to self-rescue.

About peeling layers of the onion: this is being told in a bunch of chunks because I'm remembering other events, even before the boat incident. You know, "You got out there, you get back." Well, before that incident, I must have been, I would think, between three and four years old. My mom had taken me outside of San Francisco on the Pacific Ocean, and I'd gotten in the water and the undertow had sucked me under, and apparently they figured out where I was and dragged me back out and resuscitated me or something. So I've had a number of experiences with water and almost drowning. So those are all clustered together in my brain, all tied together.

So you get slapped hard, find yourself upside down, tied in, and under the water, and all that chain reaction of emotion comes. I think the point of what I'm trying to get to is that having a safety plan so that when things break, as they always do, you have someone who will pick you up — if you have to land out (you know, the glider) or if you're sailing here — someone knows where you are so you can get fetched.

When you're trying to do those things and you don't have men in your family, when you don't have a father figure or others that will lead you, you can have all kinds of moments of being triggered and not know emotionally what that comes from. But like with an onion, you sort of peel it back, and with a group of guys around you, we can all help you kind of figure that out. What's the root of this?

In my case, the "got your butt out there, you get yourself back" was the wrong lesson for maybe a ten-year-old to be learning. I'd like to encourage you, rather than stuffing those emotional flares, take some time to consider them. Even if it takes two or three days, or even weeks, your brain will unlock those. Our brain has plasticity; it can rewire itself even into the latest parts of our lives. We can reinterpret and put new meaning, new conclusions to former events.

My stepdad's saying to me, "You got your ass out there, you get your ass back. I'm not gonna rescue you. You're on your own." Well, no, I've learned that that's not the case. That's not literally across all possible experiences. There are men, there are tools, there are self-awareness, and maturity through self-understanding that can rewire those easy-to-say phrases that affect all portions of your life.

In my case, "got your butt out there, you get yourself back" was the wrong lesson for maybe a 10-year-old to be learning. Still to this day, you know. So I'm sure you've got some of those. Why don't you log in and share one of your good stories?

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